Wednesday, December 2, 2009

The beginning of love

is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.

(wish I had learned this before)

4 comments:

Deirdre Bunny said...

I have had this happen to me rather frequently, where my exes tied to make me into something I wasn't. It wold get to a point where I finally had to ask: "What do you really like about me!?"

It happened pretty often, so it was probably a type of person I was going for when dating. I'd like to think I'm done with those poor choices.

KOKESHI PUPPET said...

Unfortunately I was talking about myself.. I was that silly and selfish person. :s

Deirdre Bunny said...

Hugs*

KOKESHI PUPPET said...

kiss kiss